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Why detoxing your life will make goal setting a dream (plus 5 actions to take now)

January 18, 2017

Today I wanted to share with you a short and sweet video on something I recently did. Being new year and all, and I call it a ‘life detox’. A sort of spring clean of the non essentials!

So why do I call it a life detox?  

A life detox is super important for anyone who is itching to lay down some killer goals but feel like they’ve got all these things in the way of doing it.

Chances are your physical clutter is what’s creating those ‘blocking’ feelings that are stopping you for getting stuck in.

A life detox is simply:

…a collection of actions we do to create space, clarity and more JOY in our lives.

As Marie Kondo says in her book the Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up –

“A dramatic reorganisation of the home causes dramatic changes in lifestyle and perspective. It is life transforming”

WOW!

So, why you do it?

Many of us will be in full swing of setting intentions, creating goals and planning for 2017.

BUT

Before we get too carried away with goals, to do lists and strategies, from now on, I will always recommend you perform a life detox.

Just like a detox that we might do with our diet – detoxing your life (which encompasses your possessions and spaces), we are aiming for a feeling of lightness, of possibility and some big fat clarity.

By taking action with our physical space, we are removing unwanted distractions to increase productivity, creativity, and create dedicated space and time for rituals & habits that will bring long term reward.

The big fat bonus – we will have less to keep tidy and everything we use in our home has purpose, is of quality, has a function and brings us JOY.

So here are my 5 actions you can start today, in no particular order:

//   Follow the Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up process – one category at a time (not area of the house), books & magazines, clothing, linen, kitchen utensils. Book in enough time that you are able to complete one category before moving on to the next. This next step is just as important. Find resources to: a) give it away or help someone or something in need or b) sell it. Don’t just take the items to another room or your garage for a rainy day!

//   Clear and create your workstation – scan paperwork/receipts to a digital format and reduce down any necessary paperwork. Add some greenery, crystals a candle and inspirational images. Make your workspace a pleasurable place to be!

//   Reduce you screen time to allow you to focus on the fun stuff: Open your inbox and unsubscribe like a mofo. Chances are you open an email and delete it straight away. I do this regularly to ensure I’m only getting the inputs I really need. Second thing you can do is buy yourself a real alarm clock – this is my favourite and I can honestly say that this one action alone has radically changed my life. Third thing, set ‘no screen’ zones in the house (#1 should be the bedroom) and create agreed power down times – a time of day when all mobiles and laptops are put away.

//   Create a dedicated meditation or yoga space: this doesn’t have to be a separate room but having your essentials on hand or in a dedicated area of the house. Some of my favourite essentials include: a yoga mat, crystals, music, bolster, timer etc. 

//   Desire Mapping! Why? because knowing how you want to feel and what success looks like to you makes goal setting utterly pleasurable. The first four actions were primarily related to spaces and possessions, but this one is about sifting through all the ways  we could feel about specific areas of our life. This process has literally changed my whole entire view of success, goal setting and the no.1 thing I do before I set any goals.

Pop on over to my resources page to find out more about The Desire Map.

There are SO many life areas we could dive into today, but these are just a few of the essentials to get you started and have you feeling clearer, calmer and a little more joyful.

Beautiful, do you feel called to come together and create a deeper connection to yourself, your career and your relationships?

Good news is that connection already exists within you. Right now you’re not sure how to go deeper? Then let’s do it together, fully supported.

You are invited to begin this journey today, and work together 1:1 by joining me for a complimentary 30min discovery call. 

email me: hello@rubymarsh.com

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How investing in a mentor will fast forward your dreams

December 13, 2016

For the last 3 months, I’ve been on a journey of the inward kind with a very special lady.

It was a journey of shedding, releasing, tears, laughter, lightbulb clarity, reflection and projection. Shit got real, and it was on me to kickstart the transformation with Jenna Ward as my mentor.

What you may not realise, is that I, like you deal with the same stuff that any human goes through moment to moment, day to day. Just because I help other women transform their lives, doesn’t mean I’m immune to what ever life throws at me.

Towards the end of this (big) year, I stood in the power of choice and within a space of 2 weeks I paid a decent four-figure sum and made a commitment to my future self and my business.

Just writing that sentence alone feels empowering.

In this past week, I concluded this 12 week journey with Jenna. With the experience fresh in my mind and body I feel compelled to share with you just how it was going to get me closer to my dream.

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Finding love – a journey from the head to the heart

November 25, 2016
You are ready to take a risk and bust out in life, but something always stops you. You feel like your mind overpowers your decisions over and over again. The head says NO don’t jump!

Sound familiar?

It certainly was the case for me. Until recently, my head led the way in every decision I made. I was stuck on the “how’s”, the “shoulds” and the “buts”…

The signs that I was stuck in my head showed up for me in these 8 ways – the most obvious was how I felt about my career direction.

And then one day I decided to put an end to feeling stuck and confused and made a couple of heart driven choices that majorly changed the game. Instead of a predictable linear path (that my mind craved), life was closer to a ‘choose your own adventure’ book.

Yep. You might say I quit. I say, things are just getting started.

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8 signs your busy mind is keeping you disconnected (from my own experience)

November 14, 2016

Do you feel like no matter what you do, you can’t stop the constant chatter in your head?

Do you fall asleep at night running to-do lists, solving that sticky problem from the office, or your body so exhausted all you can do is wish tomorrow was the weekend.

Do you wake up and it starts all over again.

Anxious about that deadline, that meeting with a new client or what you’re boss is going to say that would have you feel about 2 feet tall.

This was me, for most of my early adult life.

The noise.

How was I going to make it stop?

On the surface I held it together, but deep down I was stuck and I knew something had to change. Over twenty-something years I had slowly unravelled the connection to my heart. The place I could go that was true.

Pure freedom.

I desired to be free of the noise and deeply connected at the same time.

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Why hiding is no longer serving you if you want to play big – a lesson from Tara Mohr

October 3, 2016

A few weeks ago, I shared with my tribe the upside of expanding your comfort zone.

This level of expansion can only occur when we get out of hiding and start playing big.

Would you be surprised if I said it takes…

Only one step.

At a time.

Right now I’m relishing the downtime after hosting workshops which took over 20 women through a subject dear to my heart – The Art of Self Care. Although I would love to dive into this subject unfortunately, that’s not why we are here. We are here because these workshops taught me 3 valuable lessons.

Hiding is something I’m sure we all do at times when it comes to certain areas of our lives. It may be in your career, your relationships or your health – and these are the obvious ones. If you are anything like me, you’ve probably mastered this great act, more that once in your time.

I don’t want to make you feel uncomfortable, but if your heart desires something bigger that what you got on your plate right now, then let’s talk about it.

Someone who perfectly understands this concept is Tara Mohr. Tara reveals in her book Playing Big that hiding is one of the ways we intelligent, successful women stay in our heads for fear that our egos and our sensitive hearts will be crushed with embarrassment the moment we put ourselves out into the (lime)light.

Got an idea that scares the pants off you right now? and you’re stalling on it?

Chances are, you’ve done a bit of this already…(these are my personal favourites from the book)